The coaching life is so unique that even amongst wives who blog our take is very different person to person, season to season. I’ll be honest, there are blog posts I read and I cringe. A negative attitude is just not something I find helpful. That being said, there are so many amazing wives out there who are writing posts with heart and humor to cheer on fellow wives and offer a helpful and realistic insight into our lives.
If you are curious about the realities of the football life or if you are a coach’s girlfriend, fiance, or wife check out these bloggers.
Here are my Favorite Football Bloggers:
Friday Night Wives is one of my favorites. This blog hosts a variety of voices and perspectives, but encouragement is a continuous theme. This site also has a private facebook group which is SO supportive. It’s my absolute favorite place to learn from other wives.
While it may not seem relevant, I promise you will glean great tips and receive encouragement from Living Pro Sports.
Home Field Essentials is a great balance of helpful tips and the realities of life with littles. Her outlook is always positive which I greatly value!
While she doesn’t blog often, Coach Wife Life has a great perspective on our corner of the world.
We arrived early to our last football game. At the parent’s request, I was tasked with taking Senior Day Family pictures. I wanted to make sure we were set up well and was busy figuring out the where to stand to get the best angle.
I had sent the boys to grab dinner from the concession stand when Ordell informed me the boys would need to spend the entire game on the sidelines this week. After helping out the second half of the last game he was more confident than I that our boys (currently 5th and 7th graders) would be able to handle hydrating our team for the entire game. Since I was going to be on the sidelines taking pictures for the entire game I would be able to monitor them as well.
High school football players have a bit more of a relaxed attitude about the sideline, which can be great, or it can be a negative for younger ears. I was nervous for what they may hear or see but there was nothing more to be done.
I will summarize the evening by saying I’m sure a decisive win helped with positive attitudes and kind hearts towards my sons, but I have been on the sideline for many games this season and this week the air was different.
As our boys filled water bottles, filled cups and attended to those on the sideline as well as those on the field the players displayed a new level of patience I have not seen before. They didn’t grow frustrated when a timeout was called and water was not immediately there. They took turns hydrating and even went so far as to place the water bottle back in the carrier instead of simply tossing it to the ground.
Our team seemed acutely aware that the coach’s sons did not need to serve them in this manner. They seemed to understand that it was a privilege to have the responsibility of hydrating each other lifted from them for the evening and although gratitude is probably taking it too far, this team seemed to begin to understand how important they are to our family.
For eight years through high school and college, I volunteered as a student athletic trainer. Every weekend through Football, Soccer, Wrestling, Basketball, and Baseball I filled water bottles. I traveled with teams and I learned to love people in a different way. Years ago I began to plant the seeds of the importance of serving our teams in this small but important way. I never dreamed this result would occur, but I’m so thankful I was able to witness it unfold!
Our boys learning to fill water bottles in 2011
My heart could not stop from swelling as I watched my sons work as a team the two of them dividing responsibilities up as well as working efficiently. As I smiled and snapped the occasional picture I heard God speak to my heart in a new way.
This is what delight feels like, Beth, and the small amount you delight in your children right now barely compares to the way I delight in you and them each day.